My blog is about redefining BDSM for me, a twenty-first
century woman. It’s about putting some eloquent words behind some of the more
taboo fetishes which I have dabbled in in the past and still continue to
captivate me (ie, age play, objectifying other women and financial domination).
This blog is also a chance for me to find others’ who’re drawn to BDSM for the
same reasons as me and start a conversation with them.
I find honest conversations about BDSM are few and far
between, and sadly in the realm of the internet there’s so much misinformation
and fantasy that it can be difficult to find yourself, let alone others who’re
similar to you.
My journey has been eight years coming, from those early
days as a sixteen year old when I snuck onto BDSM personals’ sites wanting to
browse their forums and having the naive idea that these closet perverts were
truly happy just talking to me about fetishes and weren’t interested in
breaking any laws. I was then at eighteen meeting my early switch-y play
partners the later having my first earnest domme experiences. Today I am a
strong, confident dominant women who does what she pleases, with whom she
pleases when she pleases.
My personal earnest sexual liberation is one I hope will
encourage others to take a hard look at their own sexualities and explore for explorations
own sake. This is not a personal
lifestyle blog that catalogues play experiences and tenderly skirts around certain
subjects the writer doesn’t want to admit to having an interest in. I seek to
discover and enlighten, which is why I am choosing to stay (mostly) anonymous.
In terms of pronouns used, I am openly bisexual however most
of the people who approach me and who I play with are male. When I write advice
pieces they will mostly have this in mind, but if you think it is still
applicable to you, please don’t let my choice of pronouns bother you.
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